PREPARING FOR A BONDAGE SCENE

As they say, whatever you do, planning is the key to success, and a bondage scene is no exception. Whether or not I am the one getting tied or doing the tying, I always lay out everything nice, neat and orderly. This is done so whether or not I am the one getting tied up, or I am the one doing the tying, everything necessary is nice, neat and ready to go and keeps the scene flowing. I figured I would do a post on how I get ready for a scene, and use the same scenario, whether I will be the one tied up, or I have someone coming over to get tied up.

 Here is how I got ready for the bondage scene.

First is the clothing selection. For the latest scene I got tied up, I chose the Levis 513 Jeans, a light hoodie and the Converse Stars and Bars High Top Sneakers. With this picked out, now I can get dressed.

Next is the canvas Posey Hospital Straight Jacket. This is definitely my favorite bondage accessory. Note the gloves. I always put on gloves before the straight jacket goes on, as it helps lend to the tightness while I am in the straight jacket.

Next comes the ace bandage wrap for the eyes. Always have duct tape handy to help secure the ace bandage to the head. This helps block out light, and adds to the sensory deprivation. The duct tape also comes in handy for use as a duct tape gag.

Making sure there is a fresh bottle of poppers, either just opened, but no more than four or five days old enhances the scene as a fresh bottle of poppers has more punch. Nothing can be more of a scene killer than either old poppers, or even worse spilled poppers.

Having the kindle set up to go with the binaural beats already picked out are ready to go, so all that needs to happen here is once the hood is secured, the headphones are placed on the head, already playing the binaural beats.

Ankle straps with extra rope to secure those ankles.

Straps to secure the entire body to the table. There are a total of six straps, but the two straps to the right are very long, so each of these can be wrapped around the table twice, hence the reason there are a total of eight straps used to secure the body to the massage table. Once in place, I am squirming, or the guy I tied up is squirming.

The light and heavy duty vibrators for pleasure and torment. I always make sure there is an extension cord. A word of caution here. Never use the heavy duty vibrator on a cock that is not covered by jeans, a towel, etc., but the heavy duty vibrator used through the jeans lends intensity of cock play to the scene, and will definitely drive you nuts, and keep you squirming. (It does me)

The blanket with more rope. This is generally used later on in the scene to add an extra layer. The rope is not only used to keep the blanket in place, but also serves as more restraint. The heavy duty vibrator here, along with the restraint will keep you (or me) squirming, moaning and begging for more.

I have found that having everything laid out in an orderly manner makes for a much more pleasurable bondage scene. Whether I am getting tied up, or doing the tying having everything neat and orderly keeps the scene flowing, without having to fumble around looking for something. Disorganization is a scene killer.

Also, I like to make sure I am playing in a room where the temperature is comfortable, in my case between 70 and 73 degrees F, not to cold, not to hot.

Of course, you should see the finished product